❤ Sunday, September 7, 2008
men are selfish
to all the men out there, if you are reading this.. don't be offended. everything stated here are just opinions.
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I was just talking to my mummy yesterday and she told me something that I'll remember.
"Men are all selfish. They will only look out for themselves."
(Men - Group. So you can't sue my mum for defamation)
She started rolling out examples to me.
#1: They will run away at the slightest happening of things
#2: They make you plan your time around them and will never plan their time around you
#3: Somehow, you are constantly giving, but they don't give as much as they take.
etc etc.
Of course,there are some girls who do the same things to their boyf.
I think my mum is jaded when it comes to boygirl relationships to the extent of marriages and kids.
She has 1 philosophy in life that she sticks to.
If she is with her man, she expects full attention from him. He is not allowed to look at other girls. If he wants to, do so behind her back. To her, that is equivalent to respecting her as his wife/gf or respecting her as a woman.
She was telling me about how guys who look at other girls even though they have a girlfriend beside them is really too much. When you oogle at someone else, you are telling that person that he/she is more attractive than your other half! Well, this is what she meant.
I suppose I agree to a certain degree. On one side, i feel that she is right (practically hitting the bullseye) but somehow I also think that because she is jaded, she tends to be on the extreme.
ahhh, oh well.. What do you think? I would love to hear from both genders to weigh it out. Love seems to get more and more complicated. Or perhaps it has been like that since the start and like scientist and researchers, people just seem to wanna find out more about it and thus, all these questions, theories and philosopies start appearing.
To me, I only ask for a simple thing in love.
You know how school teachers like to tell you to set a high target and expectation so when you fall below it, you will not be that disappointed?
BULLSHIT.
to me, it's simple.
Do not give me high hopes. Cause when I don't see it happening, it dishearten me badly and I'll find it hard to believe the next time you do it.
And when it still happens that way.. I guess.. I would have expected it. In the end, I will just expect for the worst all the time.
In a simple sentence: Don't make promises if you know you will break them.
(The feeling sucks. like seriously)
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